"How will they learn that [hitting, swearing, breaking things, etc] is wrong if I don't punish them, give them some sort of consequence, or respond in some strong way?" They must understand that this is not acceptable! Isn't it my responsibility to make it clear to them that their behavior is unacceptable? If I just let them do it without telling them it's wrong, they'll think it's okay!"Take note. This is a myth.I (or you!) could walk into any preschool classroom, anywhere, tomorrow morning and ask any 3-year-old, 4-year-old, or 5-year-old if hitting, breaking, or swearing is okay, and 99.9% of them would clearly and definitively say no.This is one of the most common myths in life and in working with young children. So many of us fall into the trap of believing that if they know it's wrong, they won't do it. That is not how behavior works, nor is...